I have just released public beta of my remote control program for Winamp, Media Player Classic (MPC) and VLC Videolan Player.
It also have server to provide fast search and realtime filesystem browsing.
With socket-server you can also make your own custom commands/scripts to control your computer.
It uses network (GPRS,EDGE,3G,WLAN) to connect to your computer.
Don't have to mess up with bluetooth 😊
Remote'EmAll is Java MIDP2.0 software so it should work on almost any phone supporting Java MIDP2.0.
Remote'EmAll
http://www.petripaavola.fi/remoteemall/