By switching to synchronizing my local replicated calendar, I got this to work for me:
Simply go into sync station settings, calendar, and uncheck "Use Default Server and Database file". After doing that, use these settings:
Select Server:
local
Select database file to synchronise with:
C:\Lotus\Notes\Data\jdoe.nsf
Note: you must replicate your lotus notes file. For me, I have it set to replicate every 5 minutes while at work so it doesn't matter to me whether it syncs with the Server or the local.