It is true that neither device supports Java, only javascript - yes, BOTH support javascript.
Nokia devices support flash, true, but after waiting since last October for the release of FL3.0 I am sorely disappointed with the quality and usability of it. Going on the fact that I generally only need flash for Youtube I am here drawn more to The Iphone with its OFFICIAL high-quality Youtube client (and unofficial downloader) than the Symbian Flashlite capability which is SEVERELY handicapped - it doesn't work at all on most of my favourite flash sites.
Mobitubia (the Youtube client) is garish, clunky and unsatisfactory in my eyes.
COME BACK EMTUBE!!!!!
There is a huge amount of development for the Iphone and obvious support from Google and the BBC. I don't doubt that Channel 4 will release a 4od client soon and there's already a DEDICATED ORB client and a superbly slick Fring client - all of which sit happily in the background while you run other applications.
Coreplayer is in development for the Iphone meaning that soon Iphone users will be able to view almost any video format without conversion.
There is no reason why both the Iphone 3g and standard Iphone can't be updated to support any bluetooth profile (when they finally decide that this will be a worthwhile exercise!). Apple seem to like to hold things back until they've got them dusted.
Currently I'm happy with my N95 - it's still a damn good device; but perhaps therein lies the problem. It's now over a year since my N95-1 was released and there is nothing better out there yet: no Touchcreen, no higher-resolution screen, nothing to get excited about. Sure there was an 8gb version with extra RAM and a slightly bigger screen (with resultant lower ppi count)
but is this an exciting upgrade?
And what will the N96 offer us? QVGA screen (again) same camera, 16gb of storage (I don't even use all my 8gb) and a tv service which doesn't work in the Uk and will be of limited appeal beyond the novelty factor.
What does the Iphone 3g potentially offer me that I don't have?
A much more enjoyable browsing experience. So enjoyable in fact that the first time I tried the browser on a Touch was like the first day I got broadband.
The best mobile Email client ever. Period.
GPS with a responsive, accelerometer-driven screen (roll on Tomtom) and the best Googlemaps client available for mobiles.
A music player with no match, which actually plays album art.
Great battery life.
Support from the BBC and google for apps such as the Iplayer and Youtube . Popular sites will invariably release Iphone applications, negating the need for Flashlite for most people.
Orb client which is easier to use than a browser based app, and which allows audio and video streaming WHILST multitasking. Strange that the N95 is unable to offer this feature without pausing and re-buffering every time.
I wish Nokia would use a little more imagination. If the Iphone 3g comes out on T-Mobile in the next 6 months I have no doubt that I'll be getting one.