"Nokia's intentionally crippled devices"
I could make the same accusations about the iPhone: no 3G, no EDGE, no support for MMS... these are key things missing from a $500 smartphone. Do you think Apple deliberately left them out in order to trap people into buying another device?
No, I think they left them out because hardly anyone uses them in the American market the iPhone is aimed at, and you can find similar reasons for the other devices which you consider lacking in some way. You can't compare the N91 and E61's screens because they came out at totally different times, the N91 was one of the last small-screen devices while the E61 was the very first horizontal screen S60 model, there wasn't any intention to present them as two alternative options.
The E61 was a business phone, it's manufactured by Nokia's business unit, not the mobile phone unit. None of the advertising even mentioned that it had a music player let alone stereo sound, and I'd wager that most people who bought it don't even know it can play music.
Look at Nokia's E61 website and try and find a single reference to music or sound:
http://europe.nokia.com/link?cid=EDITORIAL_5523
There isn't one, except buried way down at the bottom of the tech specs which says it's MP3 compatible, and even that doesn't mention stereo playback (what's more the headphone that comes with the E61 is mono so no one would ever guess).
"an all-rounder device for all that i needed to do instead buying devices designed for a specific purpose. That hasen't happened yet and with Nokia's intentionally crippled devices, it doesn't look like it's going to happen soon."
If you want a big screen with external music controls that don't require you to unlock the phone, take a look at something like the 6290 or the N75 or the N76 or the N95, they all have external music controls and large 240x320 screens.
"Their arguments still hold and i don't know why they would take them back"
The drift I was trying to get across was that these particular commentators were more concerned with praising Apple than having an opinion of their own. That's why they would take them back, because they followed whatever Apple did. If Apple suddenly started making blenders and fridges, they'd probably say it was just the right move for an electronics company.
"These arguments were based on what "convergence" looked like today and was likely to look like in the future. And let's face it: it's not pretty. Today's "convergence" phones are a chore to use as music devices or more generally, converged devices."
I hear people say this all the time but I can only assume they used a smartphone for music once and decided it was horrible and never did it again. Perhaps they were so used to the way their dedicated music player worked, they felt anything else was difficult, but that's exactly how I feel when I try and use a Macintosh after years of using Windows.
If you use a smartphone for music released within the last six months, you won't find any major differences between it and a separate music player, they're pretty much equal in abilities.
I'm not sure what you'd define a chore as, but I find no problems using my smartphone (a Nokia E61) to play music. I click once on the music icon, the music app pops up straight away and I click again to start it playing. It's great, I have absolutely no desire whatsoever for a dedicated music player because I can't find any problems in the way this one works. I use it differently to you though, I use it on the train, on the bus etc so there's no need to lock it or put it away. I also use it at home plugged into speakers if I don't want the bother of booting up my PC every time I want to listen to digital music.
If I want to find tracks from an album I click on "albums", if I want to find tracks from an artist I click on "artists", if I want to find tracks individually I click on "tracks"... where's the chore?
Three years ago smartphone music players were terrible, they were slow and clunky and could only handle a limited number of tracks, but that was three years ago. They've all changed radically since then, all of them.
The only weak point I can think of with smartphone music players is transferring CDs using the PC software which can sometimes be a pain compared to something like iTunes, but that's a PC software problem, not a problem with the device itself or convergence as a whole. That's a question of getting better PC developers, not better phone designers.